Our culture places great value on modesty. Children are commonly told not to “toot your own horn” or “get a swelled head.” When singing our own praises, many of us have been reproached: “What! Do you think you’re better than everyone else?”

When such attitudes are deeply ingrained, it can be difficult to acknowledge your strengths and accomplishments and to derive legitimate satisfaction from your successes. Yet honest pride in your achievements is an essential element of personal confidence and self esteem. 

Pride Is Not Arrogance